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Be Certain About What You Believe

Posted on : 06-03-2013 | By : Cathy | In : Uncategorized


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Overwhelm-Busting Strategies

Posted on : 05-03-2013 | By : Cathy | In : Uncategorized


Symptoms of overwhelm can be physical (nail biting, clumsiness, neck ache); psychological (forgetfulness, rudeness, defensiveness); social (poor hygiene, inadequate boundaries); or spiritual (loss of sense of purpose, unsure of what’s important).

Its triggers are just as individual: a deadline, a certain tone of voice, change.

Noticing these symptoms and triggers is like setting off the two-minute warning buzzer—giving you time to implement your proven intervention techniques.

The Strategies

Write down all the nurturing things you can think of to do when overwhelm begins to visit. They’ll help you reconnect with yourself, to re-collect and re-focus your energy inside. Keep a copy with you and one at home. When you begin to notice your particular symptoms and/or triggers, use the list to remind yourself of things that have worked in the past. Here are just a few suggestions. Be as creative as you want.

• Breathe. Remember the breath’s metaphor: Let in; let go.

• Wrap up in a blanket. Cuddle a doll.

• Dance alone, with or without music. Let your body lead the way.

• Listen to violin, cello or piano music. Let the music elicit tears.

• Light a candle. Maybe it’s one small candle at your work desk or lots of candles around your house.

• Watch a funny video. Laughter has a positive effect on brain chemistry.

• Ask for help. It’s a gift that allows others the opportunity to give.

• Go for a walk. Exercise increases adrenaline and endorphins, the body’s natural antidepressants.

• Lie on the grass outside (weather permitting!). Connect with the earth’s regenerating powers.

• Go to your room—or your car—and sing to yourself. Or hum quietly as you work.

In Thursday’s post I will share some practices you can adopt to get you through overwhelm. Stay tuned!

Create Reminders to Create a New Habit

Posted on : 04-03-2013 | By : Cathy | In : Uncategorized


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Hug Someone Today

Posted on : 22-02-2013 | By : Cathy | In : Uncategorized


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Go Ahead and Ask!

Posted on : 18-02-2013 | By : Cathy | In : Uncategorized


Try Another Way

Posted on : 15-02-2013 | By : Cathy | In : Uncategorized


The “Active” Leader: Harnessing Willpower to Move from Ideas to Action-Four Key Steps

Posted on : 14-02-2013 | By : Cathy | In : Uncategorized


… And continuing with my post on Tuesday…

Burch and Ghoshal identify four key steps that form the basis of successfully taking action:

Form your intention. To work, your goal must appeal to you emotionally and be something you can define concretely enough so you can clearly visualize its success.

Commit unconditionally to your intention. This is the key step, which the authors liken to “crossing the Rubicon,” Caesar’s irreversible decision that led to his conquest of Rome. 

Protect your intention. Once you have made your commitment, you have to protect it from forces both within yourself and your organization.

Disengage from your intention. Unlike Caesar, your Rubicons aren’t life-and-death affairs. You have to define your “stopping rules,” the point of success—or failure—from which you walk away and take up the next challenge.

From the commitment comes both the emotional energy and the focus that are critical to your success. In short, the process of getting things done in business is pretty much the same as in any other aspect of life: The only things that get done are those that you genuinely believe in, and believe will get done.

Add One Success Habit this Week

Posted on : 13-02-2013 | By : Cathy | In : Uncategorized


Your Success Habits… What’s Working For You?

Posted on : 11-02-2013 | By : Cathy | In : Uncategorized


What Are Your Success Habits?

Posted on : 08-02-2013 | By : Cathy | In : Uncategorized


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